I enjoyed the discussion (and auction online), because I have been honored to touch, hold and wear (yes, wear) fine jewels that are not only works of art, but absolute masterpieces! For example: I attended the live Christie’s Magnificent Jewels Auction in Geneva (2013) when the historical Archduke Joseph Diamond sold for a record breaking $23.5 million…. Â
 ….and I previously wore that magnificent diamond when I met President Bill Clinton in Belgium, at a VIP reception at the Antwerp World Diamond Center.
Fine Jewelry is More Than an Accessory
While I believe Fine Jewelry is more than an accessory, I also believe it is more significant than a fine work of art! When the Archduke Joseph Diamond touched my skin, I felt differently. It was not the price, because as many people in the jewelry industry and private events have seen, I often have been adorned with millions of dollars worth of jewels. Nor do I think my physical response was related to the diamond’s incomparable beauty…despite the mesmerzing affect that I experienced just looking at the diamond. Perhaps it was the fact that the Diamond was historical; it was the property of the Archduke Joseph August of Austria, Palatine of Hungargy (1872-1962), a member of the House of Habsburg. (Note: Did I ever mention that I am 100% Hungarian? LOL) IMAGINE the royalty that touched and wore that Diamond throughout history….before it touched my décolleté! Imagine the stories surrounding that diamond!  Yet, Consider Alfredo Molina, CEO of Black Starr & Frost jewelers, (pictured above with me in the first picture of this blog) who owned/auctioned the Diamond and explained:  “I was blessed to be the Archduke’s guardian and champion for the past 13 years, and indeed
 …it has become part of my very identity.“
Mr. Molina, get’s closest to what I think. While wearing that masterpiece was a significant and unparalleled experience….I often feel differently when fine jewels/jewelry touch my skin. Just like that magnificent jewel became part of Alfredo Molina’s identity, fine jewelry becomes part of me (when it adorns me). I don’t feel a fine crafted piece of jewelry on my skin; I just feel differently ….and I move differently, too.ÂOnce a piece of fine jewelry adorns me…it becomes part of me.Â
It’s a Physical, Mental & Emotional ConnectionÂ
Every fine jewel/jewelry has Meaning (whether it be about its mysterious history or the connection to the person that gave it to me, or the meaning of the occasion /moment that I wore it for the first time). When the fine jewel or jewerly is put on….IÂ am internally affected by the mystery that a real and natural jewel holds; along with the knowledge (aka mental connection) to the meaning of the piece. Finally, how can the Mystery of Physical Chemistry and the Meaning of a piece not combine to create an emotional connection (….for me any emotional connection is magical when it happens) !
A Gift with Mystery, Meaning & Magic
Perhaps you know that the strongest bond two people can have …only occurs when they are happily connected on three dimensions (the Physical, Mental and Emotional) . True love always fades (sometimes painfully slow, sometimes traumatically fast) when one of the three dimensions weakens or is damaged/betrayed. (Note: the love doesn’t die, but it definately fades with only lingering memories of what was.) This holiday, consider giving a gift that is worthy of your love…NOT an ACCESSORY, NOR A WORK OF ART. Consider a fine jewelry piece that carries everything that a healthy loving couple has: the ongoing Mystery (…of physical chemistry) , the interesting Meaning (…associated with each other and the occasion/gift) and the Joyful Magic (of the emotional connection). My choice is always a real Diamond…but any natural gemstone formed over billions of years, beneath the earth, under extreme heat and pressure will be worthy, 🙂   LOL – ONLY A DIAMOND IS FOREVERÂ
Consider giving Mr. Alfredo Molina a call …. & start by visiting one of his two websites:  www.MolinaFineJewelers.com  www.BlackStarrFrost.com